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You May Be In This Kind Of Unspoken Relationship, And Not Even Realize It
There are many reasons people might find themselves in a tolyamorous dynamic — even if it’s not their preferred relationship structure. For one, some cultures recognize that lifelong monogamy isn’t realistic and believe extramarital sex is likely to occur, …