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My Husband Said Something Awful to Me During Sex. Now We Can Barely Look at Each Other.
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My husband and I had a very rare work-free, kids-at-daycare day home together today. We had some of the most connected and …